Don't Trade Your Proverbs 31 Wife for a Proverbs 7 Woman
- Kori Bonilla
- Jun 4
- 8 min read
John 10:10, NASB—The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have
life, and have it abundantly.
Proverbs 5:3-4, NKJV —For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey, and her mouth is
smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a
two-edged sword.
In this hour, there is a spiritual war raging over marriages, families, men of God, their homes, their destinies, and their legacies. At the center of this war is a deception as old as Eden, satan's lie and tactic: the seductive lie that something sweeter exists outside of God’s will.
A seduction of the enemy masked as love, desire, or newfound “freedom.” It’s the tragic exchange of a Proverbs 31 wife—faithful, virtuous, God-fearing—for a Proverbs 7 woman—crafty, seductive, and destructive. The Proverbs 7 woman—a seductive counterfeit sent straight from the pit of hell to destroy covenant marriages and pull men out of the divine order and assignment of God. Let's be very clear, there is no comparison between a Proverbs 31 wife and Proverbs 7 woman, they are not even close to being on the same plain or playing field. It is apples and oranges literally!
Men of God, this is not merely about an affair or a fleeting moment of lust. This is a soul-level trade—a trade that leads to death, loss, and spiritual ruin.
The Proverbs 7 woman is not just a physical temptation—she is a spiritual weapon sent from the kingdom of darkness, a demonic assignment meant to:
Steal your blessing
Kill your covenant and destiny
Destroy your marriage and your soul
Pull you into rebellion
Blind you to Truth
Seduce you into sin
and ultimately steal your soul - once again leading you into bondage, deception and death.
This is not just a bad decision—it’s a spiritual trap. And if you’re not discerning the situation, you will step into it and lose everything.
🔥 The adulterous woman is an assignment from hell.
🚨 God’s warning is very clear, the adulterous woman destroys.
The Word of God is not silent about the consequences if you choose the adulterous path.
Proverbs 7:21–23, NIV—With persuasive words she led him astray; she seduced him with her
smooth talk. All at once he followed her like an ox going to the
slaughter…little knowing it will cost him his life.
Make no mistake—the adulterous woman is on assignment. She was sent by hell itself to derail your calling, dismantle your family, and destroy your soul. She is not a harmless distraction—she is a setup from the devil.
This is how satan operates. He doesn’t just attack you with violence—he seduces you with what looks good, sounds good, and feels good. But beneath the sweetness is spiritual poison.
The adulterous woman is described in Proverbs 7 as a hunter of souls, luring men into sin, only for them to find themselves in bondage, shame, and spiritual death.
Proverbs 5:5, NLT—Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave.
Proverbs 7:27, ESV—Her house is the way to Sheol, descending to the chambers of death.
This is not a path of freedom—it’s a path to destruction.
This is no ordinary affair. This is a satanic setup.
The adulterous woman is a spiritual trap—a plant from the kingdom of darkness—sent to:
Demonic torment and oppression
Loss of identity
Financial ruin
Spiritual blindness
Eternal consequences
Generational destruction and generational curses
Bondage to the demons and spirits of lust and deception
and Eternal separation from God.
Proverbs 6:26, NKJV—For by means of a harlot, a man is reduced to a crust of bread; and an
adulteress will prey upon his precious life.
Did you catch that? Reduced to a crust of bread. This isn’t just about losing money or time—it’s about being stripped of your value, identity, honor, and strength. You will go from being a man of authority to spiritual starvation. From a man with vision to a man devoured by lust.
The Word of God doesn’t hold back: a man who entertains an adulterous woman is reduced to a loaf of bread—empty, stripped of dignity, drained of purpose, and spiritually famished.
Satan doesn’t just want your body—he wants your soul, your calling, your covering, and your crown.
🪤 The Trap Is Set — Don’t Step Into It
The enemy is cunning. He studies your weaknesses. He waits. Then he sends a woman not aligned with God—but tailored to your lust, your pride, or your loneliness. She is the bait. The affair is the trap.
Proverbs 7:27, ESV—Her house is the way to Sheol, descending to the chambers of death.
What looks like passion is a poisoned dagger. What feels like love is bondage in disguise.
💔 There is a Cost for Leaving Your Proverbs 31 Wife
When you leave your Proverbs 31 wife, you forfeit more than love.
Proverbs 31:11-12, NLT—Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life. She
brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.
Proverbs 18:22, ESV—He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.
Your Proverbs 31 wife is not just a woman—she’s your God-given crown (Proverbs 12:4), your helpmeet (Genesis 2:18), your intercessor, a gift from the Lord (Proverbs 19:14), she’s a powerful force of wisdom, of dignity, of strength, and the gateway to God’s favor. Your Proverbs 31 wife is a treasure from the Lord and a partner in your purpose.
When a man discards this divine blessing for a counterfeit connection, he doesn’t just walk away from a woman—he walks away from his covering, his helpmate, and ultimately his favor with God.
And once you step out of the divine protection of your covenant marriage, you become vulnerable to:
You forfeit favor but not just any favor, God’s blessing and favor–“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” (Proverbs 18:22)
You forfeit and step out of spiritual covering
You forfeit peace
You’re grieving the Holy Spirit
Your prayers become hindered - God’s ear–“Husbands…treat your wives with understanding…so your prayers will not be hindered.” (1 Peter 3:7, NLT)
Your home becomes vulnerable - Your family and home – “The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.” (Proverbs 14:1)
Your soul enters enemy territory - you lost your protection – “The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear Him” (Psalm 34:7). Walking in sin removes that fear of the Lord, and thus the angelic covering.
You’re rejecting your helper and intercessor – “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” (Genesis 2:18, ESV)
God will not bless adultery. God does not bless rebellion. And God does not ignore the tears of a righteous wife crying out for justice.
Malachi 2:13–14, NIV —You flood the Lord’s altar with tears… You ask, ‘Why?’ It is because the
Lord is the witness between you and the wife of your youth.
God takes covenant seriously. Marriage is not just legal—it’s spiritual.
⚠️ The Spiritual Fallout Is Real - And It’s Deadly
When a man leaves the path of righteousness, he opens spiritual gateways to destruction—not just for himself, but for his household.
Proverbs 6:32, NKJV—Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks sense; he who does so destroys his own soul.
Not only is your soul affected, but when the door to adultery is opened it brings:
Demonic oppression and torment
Loss of identity
Generational curses and destruction
Financial ruin
Spiritual blindness
Eternal consequences
Separation from God
Bondage to demons and spirits of lust and deception
And unless there is full repentance, you step out of God’s protection and into satan’s snare.
🚨Choose Wisdom Before It’s Too Late
Proverbs 6:27, NIV—Can a man scoop fire into his lap and not be burned?
The adulterous woman cannot satisfy what only a covenant wife can supply. Her flattery may excite your flesh, but it’s designed to enslave your soul.
What you think is “freedom” will soon feel like bondage. What you call “new love” is really spiritual warfare. What seems “harmless” is in fact hell’s bait.
🙌 There Is Redemption — But You Must Repent
Malachi 3:7, NIV—Return to Me, and I will return to you, says the Lord Almighty.
It’s not too late. If you’ve fallen, rise in repentance. If you’ve left, return in humility. If you’re tempted, run with fear and trembling. God restores those who truly turn.
God is merciful, but time is not unlimited. If you’re in the trap, get out. If you’re being tempted, run. If you’ve walked away, repent and return. Your Proverbs 31 wife is not disposable—she’s a lifeline from God.
If you’ve entertained this spirit…
If you’ve walked away from your wife…
If you’ve stepped into rebellion…
God is calling you back. But true repentance requires action:
✅ Cut off the adulterous relationship
✅ Break every soul tie
✅ Confess and humble yourself before God
✅ Return to your wife
✅ and fight for your marriage in the Spirit
🛡️ Final Word: Don’t Trade Your Destiny for a Delusion
Trading in your Proverbs 31 wife for a Proverbs 7 woman is not an upgrade—it’s a spiritual downgrade to destruction. Choose righteousness, choose repentance, choose restoration—and reclaim everything the enemy tried to steal.
The adulterous woman isn’t love. She’s a setup.
She isn’t a gift. She’s a grave.
She isn’t your future. She’s your fall.
👑 Don’t exchange your crown for crumbs.
👑 Don’t exchange God’s treasure for satan’s trap.
👑 Don’t trade your crown for a curse.
👑 Don’t lose everything over a lie from hell.
👑 Don’t step into the enemy’s snare.
👑 Turn back to God—and to your Proverbs 31 wife—before it costs you everything.
👑 Don’t abandon your covenant.
🕊️ Don’t grieve the God who joined you together.
One final note to the adulterous woman/man and the adulterous spouse:
God does not give an adulterous woman/man someone else’s spouse. They are not your blessing—they are already in covenant. Period! What God joins together, He does not contradict. God does not break covenants to form new ones built on sin, deception, and rebellion. That man or woman is not yours—they belong to their covenant spouse, and to the sacred vow made before God.
🙏 Prayer of Repentance and Deliverance
Father God,
I humble myself before You and confess that I have walked into a trap laid by the enemy. I repent for entertaining, entertaining, or engaging with the adulterous woman—whether in my thoughts, actions, or physical life. I renounce the spirit of adultery. I renounce every soul tie, every spirit of lust, rebellion, pride, deception, and destruction sent from the pit of hell. I command the assignment of the enemy to be canceled in Jesus’ name. Forgive me for dishonoring my covenant, my wife, and You.
In the name of Jesus, I close every door I’ve opened to the enemy. Wash me, restore me, and reignite the love, honor, and fear of the Lord in my heart. Rebuild my marriage. Heal my home. and protect me from the snare of destruction in the name of Jesus.
Lord, restore my heart to righteousness. Restore my love and loyalty to my covenant wife. Cover my marriage again with Your hand of protection. Let the fire of the Holy Spirit purify me. I choose the path of life. I choose obedience. I choose covenant. In the powerful name of Jesus, Amen.
📖 Key Scriptures for Reflection: (Click on a scripture below and read it for yourself)
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